After a whole weekend of watching two kids, running around and crying I finally end the weekend with a comedy movie. Me and my husband hasn't gone out in two years to relax each other's mind off of homework or kids. I, myself never get interested in movie, but after a while watching " What's your number" made me realize how marriage life is compared to the single life.
The movie " What's your number", was a movie that has romances and comedy. I love comedy movie, especially romance but hardly every had time to go out. I'm always so tense up on finding a babysitter for my kids to do homework or study for test that I barely realize how it feel going out. Going out in two years, made me feel so relax. I felt young again and more time on myself.
My husband even took time to set back on going fishing with his friends that he took the time into having his parents watch out our kids while we went out for dinner at Texas road house, then ending the night with a comedy movie. I love it, because I was so stressed out for my sociology test and then working on my math class and studying for it.
Going out is not a habit with me and my husband but it does feel nice to have time to ourselves to get away from our kid and not worrying about whether who's turn to take care of our kids. The more effort we put on our kids and school work, the more I loved that I got one whole Sunday to myself and my husband. Being marriage is is complicated with kids crying and not liking anyone. But ending my weekend to relaxation and a little time to myself makes me stronger into knowing that one day can compete the whole stressful days.
I hear you Xylina. My wife and I had our first child in February 2010, and times out have been rare since then. But you know what? Because you don't take it for granted I think you really can enjoy the time out more than you did previously.
ReplyDeleteI agree! I vowed to go out once a month with my husband or date night with friends when I had kids...Yeah, right, ok that does not happen. But I really think it is neccessary to do. At times life gets so crazy that you forgot why you got married in the first place! It's crazy, but good for you, I hope to have a date night soon! Glad you had fun!
ReplyDeleteEven though I'm not married, I can see this in marriage couples too like my two sisters. But that's good to hear that you enjoyed the movie. Hopefully I can experience what you have about having time with your spouse when having kids around.
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